You Are Not Alone in Your Pain
Childhood sexual abuse shatters safety, trust, and innocence. Many survivors carry unspoken shame, deep self-blame, and confusing feelings about what happened. These wounds can live on in your nervous system — even when you’ve tried to move on — showing up in relationships, intimacy, anxiety, depression, or dissociation.
You are not broken. You are not beyond repair. At Ronee Miller Counseling in Tribeca, NYC, I offer in-person therapy that honors your pace and helps you safely connect with the pain you've carried — not to relive it, but to release what never belonged to you.
Call (212) 349-6544 or visit roneemillercounseling.com to begin your healing journe
When we are sexually abused as children it creates a deep “wound in our souls”:. The soul is your mind, will, and emotions. Childhood sexual abuse is a violent wounding of your soul. When you were sexually abused as a child it was most likely by someone you trusted and your “trust” has been shattered. Your capacity to trust yourself and others have now become an ongoing issue as an adult.
You may be experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder as your repressed memories are held in the body with the accompanying emotions that are now “stuck” in your body and mind. As a result, you may also be experiencing physical symptoms(ie. IBS, backaches, frequently feeling “sick”,as well as emotional ones.
Depression and anxiety are strongly correlated with childhood sexual abuse.1 in 4 girls has experienced sexual abuse during childhood and 1 in 13 boys. These numbers only represent those who are reporting the abuse. Most do not as childhood sexual abuse cloaks the child in shame and fear as well as ‘; secrecy”. Boys are much less likely to report sexual abuse due to confusion related to cultural norms and stigma.
See: ”Men: Breaking The Silence Of Childhood Sexual Abuse”
1.COURAGE
Courage is an essential element in your healing. It will take “courage” to make a conscious decision to no longer run away and avoid what happened to you as a child but to allow yourself to feel and process so that you can begin to heal. You do not have to live your life with the effects of your childhood sexual abuse but it will take you making an effort in order to go forward if you do not: then you will stay stuck. Courage will move you forward to speak and process. Therapy is essential so that you can finally get the attention you so desperately need and be able to feel “safe” to begin this amazing healing process and longer be alone as you go through it
2. BREAKING THE SILENCE.
Like so many survivors of childhood sexual abuse, you may never have told anyone what happened to you as a child. Everything was cloaked in fear and shame that you internalized. As an essential step in beginning the healing process: your starting put your thoughts and feelings into words to speak about what was “unspeakable” before. You can start with anyone providing that this is someone that you do “trust”. Often in families, more than one child was sexually abused by the same perpetrator and siblings have never spoken to each other about what happened. This could be a place for you to start or a friend as “breaking the silence” is the beginning of healing!
3. LETTING GO OF SHAME AND GUILT
Please understand that the one who needs to hold the shame and guilt is the perpetrator, not you!! You were never the problem and you did not cause this soul violation and wounding! In order to be free from the shame you will need to no longer believe the “lies” you have believed and internalized about yourself and the guilt related to the “secret” you have been holding: as what happened was never your fault! John 8 V32: “You Shall Know the Truth and The Truth Shall Set You Free”.!
See: “How To Break The Shame/Depression Cycle”
What Therapy With Me Is Like
In my calm, pet-friendly home office in Tribeca, therapy is a sacred space where you are no longer alone with your pain. You’ll be met with presence, gentleness, and deep respect. There is no rush — we move at your pace, honoring both your wounds and your strength.
As a trauma therapist grounded in relational healing, I help you listen to your body, begin to name the unspeakable, and reconnect to parts of you that may have gone numb to survive. At Ronee Miller Counseling, healing is not about fixing — it’s about becoming whole.
Call (212) 349-6544 or visit roneemillercounseling.com to schedule a private consultation.
An Invitation to Reclaim Your Life
What happened to you was not your fault. Your story matters. And healing is possible — even if you can’t imagine it yet.
I invite you to take a courageous step toward restoration at Ronee Miller Counseling in Tribeca, NYC. Together, we will honor your story, gently release your shame, and help you reclaim your voice, your body, and your dignity.
Call (212) 349-6544 or click here to connect. I would be honored to walk with you.
📚 Resources for Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse
If you or someone you love is healing from childhood sexual abuse, you're not alone — and support is available. These trusted resources may offer information, validation, and guidance alongside your therapeutic work.
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
The largest anti-sexual violence organization in the U.S. Offers a 24/7 confidential hotline and survivor resources.
🔗 rainn.org1in6
Support and healing resources specifically for men who experienced sexual abuse or assault as children or adults.
🔗 1in6.orgThe National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN)
Offers education and tools for understanding complex trauma, PTSD, and healing pathways.
🔗 nctsn.orgThe Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis
A foundational book for many survivors — compassionate, practical, and empowering.
🔗 The Courage to Heal – AmazonInternal Family Systems (IFS) and Trauma Healing
Learn how “parts work” helps survivors reconnect to their wounded inner child and access self-compassion.
🔗 ifs-institute.com